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WANT TO BE A PERFECT PARENT? August 5, 2016

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HEALING THE PAIN OF REGRET ~  FROM A MEDIUM’S PERSPECTIVE

Painful photo? YES as the pain of regret IS very painful. Everything I have learned from BEING a parent and everything I have learned from the messages of apology that come through from loved one’s in eternal life to their children still living has taught me: there is no such thing as a perfect parent. And there is no such thing as a perfect human being. At least I have never met such a unique creature. ( In fact those parading around as perfect spiritual guru’s frighten me the most.)

SOOOOOOOO, should we stop TRYING because we can’t be perfect? If you say “yes” to that –  it is the same as being on a healthy diet, having something not so healthy to eat and then deciding all is lost so you might as well food binge for the next month.

FACE THE PAIN OF REGRET: Think about that ONE DAY that changed your whole life, at least it seemed like it did. You made a mistake. If only you could take that day back. The movie of that day plays over and over in your mind, year after year. This was a day you made a mistake as a parent.  There may have been other mistakes on other days, but this one day looms large on the horizon of your visions of the mistakes you made.

Do those mistakes matter now? Of course they matter now, but if you have faced your mistakes, have become a more balanced person, apologized for your mistakes, then it is high time that you FORGIVE YOURSELF even if you are not forgiven by others.

FORGIVE YOURSELF AND PERHAPS YOU WILL BEGIN TO FORGIVE YOUR OWN PARENTS

Were your parents perfect? Most likely not. Did they make mistakes that you have never forgiven them for in your heart. (It goes without saying that if you have been brutally abused you may not be able to forgive.)  But for the better part of us who had parents that ranged from close to perfect to emotionally abusive due to untreated mental illness or personality disorders: we have parents who loved us but who make mistakes that changed our lives in the same way that our mistakes changed the lives of our children.  It is amazing how we begin to understand and forgive the mistakes of our parents as we begin to understand our own mistakes AS parents.

As a medium I can tell many stories about the loved ones who come through in readings with very specific apologies to their living children. And as these loved ones in spirit are able to apologize it appears to me that they are able to move on in the never ending spiritual growth in Eternal Life.

YOU reading this, are still living and so you have the opportunity to apologize NOW.  You have the chance to forgive yourself NOW.

FORGIVE YOURSELF AND PERHAPS YOU WILL BEGIN TO FORGIVE YOUR CHILDREN

If you have children who have reached adulthood, have they been perfect children? Have they always treated you and other members of the family well? Most likely they have not as they are human beings like the rest of us and they are not perfect. As you forgive yourself for not being perfect, you may begin to forgive not only your parents, but your children.

And if your grown children are parents, most likely they will not become perfect parents as they are human beings and there are no perfect human beings.

I DISAGREE WITH MANY OF MY COLLEAGUES WHO BELIEVE EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON

There are colleagues in my field who believe that every thing we do, we do for the reason of learning, and everything that happens is meant to happen. I am not able to go along with that idea, and from my perspective there is absolutely no way to prove that concept. When someone is brutally abused I cannot accept that this was “meant to be.”

What I do accept is that we do not have control over all that happens in life. What we have more control over is how we respond to what happens.  And if we have behaved badly it was not written someplace in eternity that we were meant to behave badly. We must face our actions, cope with our regret, change our behaviors, and eventually forgive ourselves.  And if others have hurt us, depending on the severity of the circumstances, we need to find our way to forgiveness as much as we possibly can.

Let us focus on forgiving ourselves, and forgiving others. And while facing the regret, also focus on facing the reality that no one is perfect: I am not perfect, you are not perfect, they are not perfect. No one is perfect. Accepting our imperfect reality brings HEALING.

DEAR READERS: This post cannot possibly contain all of the many stories about different kinds of mistakes: mistakes we have made ourselves and the many ways we have suffered from the mistakes made by others.  Not even a whole book could include all of the mistakes human beings make. The topic of mistakes can be overwhelming, but we can make a start by accepting who we are as human beings and work to become better people making less mistakes.

 

 

 

 

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WASTED ENERGY TRYING TO FIT IN July 27, 2016

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Looking in Our Own Eyes

LOOK IN THE MIRROR. Look into your own eyes. Realize that each time you try to FIT IN to a role, situation or relationship that you really do not want, you are giving up part of yourself. And as you give up part of yourself, that uses up a lot of vital energy within you.WHAT would you do with that energy that is now being wasted as you try to fit in? How would you “spend” that energy if you could free that wasted energy up from having to do the horrible job of trying to make you be someone else?

Of course there ARE some situations and relationships that you are not going to leave for good reason. But if you are like me and many of those I consult with, there IS room for improvement in your personal journey: the journey to become more of who you really are. And there ARE many roles, situations and relationships that you CAN change.

I think of myself as being very different. And perhaps this is a fantasy as maybe most people think they are different. Perhaps we are all the same in that we all think we are different. No matter what the answer to this riddle is: we can all become more of who we really are!

I have come a long way in being who I am. When I was younger never would I have imagined that as an older person I would be a psychic medium out there in the world: a working medium and a published author. I know many people who are psychic and mediumistic who are afraid to admit their spiritual gifts even to themselves. I remember the years when I was deciding if I was willing to write books, be on television and radio and be know publicly or remain a kind of closeted medium that very few people would find out about.  It was a bit scary to come out as a psychic medium. Not everyone was going to approve of me, some people would say I was a freak or wacko.

LET US ASK OURSELVES LIFE CHANGING QUESTIONS: What would my life look like if I was being more of who I really am? Would I still be working in the same kind of job. would I be working at all, who would I be spending time with, what would my schedule look like, what relationships would I let go of and what kinds of relationships would I be looking for? WHAT WOULD CHANGE? There are as many answers to these questions as there are people who are willing to look themselves in the eyes and ask the questions.

LIFE IS SHORT SO DO NOT WAIT: I kinda understood that life is short when I was younger, but with years of experience as a psychic medium communicating with the spirits of those who have passed on, I really know that life is short.  And with years of comforting clients who are mourning the passing of a loved one: I know now that life is short.  Of course I have also been in deep grief over the passing of my own loved ones, and each time another of my family or friends makes a transition into eternal life, I learn once again that life is short. 

Don’t misunderstand this message. It is not a message that begs you to turn your whole life upside down in a day. It is a message that says “LOOK INTO YOUR OWN EYES AND SEE WHO YOU ARE. BECOME MORE OF WHO YOU ARE IN YOUR EVERYDAY LIFE AS LIFE IS SHORT.”

 

OPENING TO THE SPIRIT WITHIN July 17, 2016

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,;I know I have been away from this blog for quite a while but I am committed to checking your comments regularly now.  I learn from all that you share with me, so please share your comments.

OPENING TO THE SPIRIT WITHIN TO FIND RELAXATION

Some days I find myself running around in circles. I become frantic about schedules and I really try to do TOO much.  How about you? Do you over schedule your days?

I am so grateful to be writing books and composing music related to spiritual development because as has been said “WE TEACH WHAT WE NEED TO LEARN.” Yes, by this time in my life I have studied a great deal and experienced many years of work in the field of spirituality. But the truth is that I need to refocus myself each day and continue to evolve spiritually just as much as you do.  And unless you are the one perfect person in the human race, then you still have room to grow and unfold spiritually.

When I remember to stop and remember that while I am an individual I AM PART OF THE ONE, then I calm down and understand that whatever I am so frantic about does not really matter that much in the whole scheme of things.  I need to remember to slow down, breathe, and for me: listen to or perform music.  Music is vibration and the vibes of a certain piece of music can totally change my mood and my energy level at the moment.

HOW ABOUT YOU?

How do you bring yourself back in touch with the spirit within when you realize you are
“off track and out of control?”  SHARE WITH US AS WE ALL LEARN FROM EACH OTHER

Psychic Medium and Spiritual Musician Carole Lynne

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MEDIUMS HONOR OUR TEACHER GLYN EDWARDS June 9, 2015

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Many of us who work as professional mediums have had a number of teachers who have influenced our lives and our work as mediums. Many who receive readings from us do not realize how important our teachers are to us. Most of us have had one main teacher and in addition have attended workshops with the best mediums around the world: many who seem to work in the UK.  Our beloved teacher Glyn Edwards made his transition to the world of Spirit May 31, 2015 and all of us who considered him one of our important teachers, are very sad indeed. While we know his spirit will live on in eternal life, we shall surely miss his physical presence.

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SUNDAY SERVICE DEDICATED TO GLYN

On June 7th we dedicated our Spiritualist church service to Glyn at the Greater Boston Church of Spiritualism. Rev. Mary DiGiovanni chaired the service, I performed the music and the speaker/medium for the day was a medium visiting us from Scotland: Reverend Sandy Campbell. Was it a coincidence that all there of us studied with Glyn?  Below is a picture of the three of us along with a woman who came to turn pages for me when I sang: Melissa Garlisi.

Right to left: Rev, Mary, Rev. Sandy, Rev. Carole Lynne and Melissa Garlisi. We had a beautiful service and we all felt the presence of Glyn.

Glyn: we thank you for all that you have given us and we know that you will continue to be with us as you work with us from the Spirit Side.

We send our love to all of your family and friends as well as to the many people around the world who call you “teacher.”

GOD SPEED GLYN EDWARDS.

Psychic Medium Carole Lynne

Author of:  ARE YOU PSYCHIC OR MAKING IT UP

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STOP WORRYING AND GET ON WITH IT May 26, 2015

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intend stop worryI am embarrassed to admit it, but I worry WAY too much. I am a “mature woman” now and when I look back over the things I have worried the most about, NONE of those things have happened. Of course I have had bad things happen and hard times like all of you. BUT the difficult things that happened were not the things I worried about. So all that worrying was for NOTHING. I wish I could take back those hours of worry and turn them into hours of productive work or good old FUN.

These days I try hard to catch myself when I am worrying and either let my worry propel me into taking an action related to the worry, or if there is nothing I can DO, then try to let the worry go.

Right now there are things going on in the lives of people I care about and there is NOTHING I can do to change these situations or even deeply influence the people involved to do what I think they should do.  Yes, of course I have opinions about things, but at this point in life, I know that others are going to do whatever they are going to do regardless of what I say. And how am I to really know what is right for another person anyway? The only thing I CAN do is live MY life the way I want to live it,

How do you feel about worry? Would LOVE to hear from you.

Psychic Medium Carole Lynne

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WHO IS THIS TREE FOR? December 12, 2014

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IMG_5272As I decorate this tree it is for all of those who have passed on to the eternal world of the spirit, and for all of those whom I love who are still living. Each time I put another ornament on the tree I am filled with all the good and bad memories of my childhood, of the years I raised my kids, the years I helped raise my grand kids, and now in my older years, for all of my older friends, some just lingering on the earth for perhaps a few more years, and for all of my younger friends who are still building their lives and not looking back quite as much as I do now.

It is wonderful to look back as I trim the tree. I have trimmed SO many trees and I have so many memories that it becomes hard to hold on to all of them.  Some memories just fade with this years.

 

The ornaments are beautiful and as the tiny lights flash on and off I am again reminded of how wonderful Christmas was when I was a small child, when I had small children and when I had small grand children. The family is getting older now and while we still have fun, I do miss the babies. Who knows, perhaps I shall live long enough to know a great grand child.  That DOES happen these days.  Ah yes, there is a future to look forward to even as I look back at my memories.

Carole Lynne

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Author of ARE YOU PSYCHIC OR MAKING IT UP?

 

Honoring Our Loved Ones in Spirit During the Holidays December 7, 2014

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A PICTURE OF MY MOM WHEN SHE WAS YOUNG: She was beautiful wasn’t she? During world war two she was known as “GI Jill” and she did radio shows with the Armed Forces Radio to send to the troops overseas.

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She was creative and extremely talented, and also had many personal problems to cope with.

I have never seen a more beautiful Christmas tree than the trees my mom decorated. She was an artist and her eye for beauty allowed her to dress, decorate a house and make a Christmas tree look like pure magic. There were also holiday times when my mother was totally out of control.  She was like that: up and down.  I miss my mother and as I grow older I am better able to appreciate all the good that she did and let go of many of the problems she caused.  She is a beautiful soul and visits me often in spiritual form. I love her.

My thoughts are with all of you as your remember the loved ones who are no longer with you in physical form.

Carole Lynne

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Author of ARE YOU PSYCHIC OR MAKING IT UP.

The Way We Were Then August 18, 2014

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One of the hardest challenges in life is accepting change and that things and relationships never stay the same. Of course we are joyful when the changes are wonderful and beautiful, but when the changes leave us feeling sad and alone, it is difficult to accept change.  When the changes are hard to accept, we want things to be “the way we were then.”  When we are in grief over change: be it the passing of a loved one, be it a change for the worst in a relationship or job, it becomes almost impossible at times, to move on into happiness once again.

Many of us become depressed as we are unable to accept that things are not the way they were, and in our lack of acceptance of the present, we miss all the beautiful things life has to offer RIGHT NOW IN THE MOMENT.

It goes without saying thaCarole Lynne Mauit when a death occurs, no one is going to be able to move into happiness for quite some time. But eventually, even when are in grief over the passing of a loved one, with time and patience, we will learn to accept our new life. We will learn to accept that things can never be the way they were then.

Acceptance and gratitude become our best friends when we are sad.

For many of us the anniversaries of the passing of loved ones or of relationships that ended, set off emotional upheavals. If we know that the anniversary of an upsetting event is coming up, perhaps we can plan something nice to look forward to during the time of the anniversary. In doing so we will be making a statement to ourselves, that even though it is a sad anniversary, it is the anniversary of something that did not happen today, but perhaps long ago.  TODAY we need to find happiness, even as we have sad feelings about the past.

Certain times of the year are more challenging than others.

Let us pray that all of us can find a way to find the blessings in life every day, mo matter what happened in the past. As we create more better days NOW, we are creating better memories to live with a week from now, a month from now and eternally.

Carole Lynne

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Music Washes Stress Away May 29, 2014

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Music, more than anything, helps me change my mood and my level of stress, when I am in one of those “falling apart all over the place” moods. I do not have them often, but they do happen.

Here is a chant that I composed for my students and for myself to listen (and sing along with). This chant is about peace.

 

OH GREAT SPIRIT WALK WITH ME IN PEACE

OH GREAT SPIRIT WALK WITH ME IN TOLERANCE

Those are a couple of the lines.

Click on the link to go to the Carole Lynne SoundCloud page and listen to “Walk With Me in Peace.”

click here for WALK WITH ME IN PEACE music

Hope you enjoy it.

Carole Lynne

 

 

 

 

DO WE REALLY NEED TO RUSH? April 29, 2014

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There are days when I find myself rushing around the house, or rushing from one place to the other in the car. When I stop and ask myself “DO YOU REALLY NEED TO RUSH” the answer is often NO.  I am rushing because it is a habit.

TAKE JUST A COUPLE MINUTES: Listen to this meditation. It helps me and may help you to let go of your thoughts and go into a different state of consciousness.  You may find yourself in touch with your inner spirit (inner voice) that may be so much wiser than your conscious mind. I find when I do this short meditation, I stop rushing so much. I am more aware that I really DO have the time I need.

START SOUND: If Beyond Mind Meditation does not start immediately, click orange button to left above title.

Carole Lynne

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