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A Friendship Ends February 26, 2010

Posted by Carole Lynne in Grief, Love, Uncategorized.
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“I need to step away from my very good friend as she has hurt my feelings once too often.  Our friendship can never be the same after what she said to me recently.”

Ending a long time friendship is a very painful experience, but an experience that one must cope with if a friend is not acting like a friend any longer.

When a friendship ends and you look back over the years,  you realize that the recent event that was SO upsetting, has simply become the straw that breaks the camels back, or the drop of water that finally makes the water spill.  You realize that over the years there have been little hurts that you simply let go because after all “this is my good friend.”  You have made excuses for your friend, and have continued to carry the weight of the relationship, often feeling as if you are chasing after your friend.

Finally the day comes when you have grown and matured to the point where you can no longer let these hurts that are inflicted on you….go.  You have reached the end of your rope and suddenly all of the little hurts that have accumulated over the years, join together with the recent incident, and you HAVE HAD IT!!!!!   You may ask yourself why you are getting so upset, but when you realize that this recent incident is one of  many you have not dealt with before, then you understand your anger has built up over a long period of time.

“I should have told my friend years ago how she was upsetting me, but I didn’t. Now it is too late to mend this friendship” you cry inside. And it is too late.

Perhaps it is not a tragedy. Perhaps the friendship served both you and your friend for many years, and now the relationship simply does not serve either one of you.  It is okay to let go and move on. Life will take you down different paths now, and perhaps you will meet again and perhaps you will not. Life is like that: we do not know what will happen.

But there are tears and it does hurt.  But you know deep inside it is time to move on.

Psychic Medium and Inspirational Author Carole Lynne

www.carolelynne.com

www.carolelynnecosmicconnection.com

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