When Hurt, Acceptance is Needed October 12, 2010
Posted by Carole Lynne in All About Spirit, Feeling Better, Grief, Love, Spiritual Awakening, Spiritual Priority.Tags: acceptance, unconditional love
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When someone we care for hurts our feelings, it is always difficult. Even though we know those close to us very well, there is a way that we can never really know the thoughts of another person, especially if we are close to that person. Sure, as a psychic I am able to understand the thoughts of my clients, but when I am close to someone, I can easily be blinded by what I want to see, and avoid seeing that which I do not want to face.
Acceptance of those we care about has to be complete. Unconditional love has to be a goal for each one of us. Acceptance and love however, do not mean that we have to condone or even understand the actions of another person. We live in a complex world, and all of us do not have the same ideas about what is right, what is proper and what is true. Our diversity has to lead us to occasional conflicts. We have to be ready to accept that those close to us will not always see things the way we do, and what we feel is true may not be true for those close to us.
Acceptance is a spiritual goal always in progress.
Psychic Medium and Inspirational Author Carole Lynne
www.carolelynne.com
Acceptance June 6, 2010
Posted by Carole Lynne in Feeling Better, Love, Spiritual Awakening, spirituality in action, Uncategorized.Tags: acceptance, Love
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Shall we argue and fight over nothing? Shall we look at each other critically? Or shall we dance to the tune of beauty and love and find the goodness in each other?
We have a choice every time we communicate with each other. If we want to find the worst in each other, we will surely find it! And if we are looking for the best, we are guaranteed to find that also. The choice is ours. How do we want to see each other?
It has been said that we are often mirrors of each other. When we get terribly upset by some apparent fault we find in each other, we are actually disturbed because of that same fault lurking somewhere within us.
Perhaps it is time we realized how short life is. Perhaps it is time that we stopped wanting each other to be perfect. And it is also time for each of us to accept our selves. Time on earth is not forever so perhaps we better start making the best use of it.
Psychic Medium and Inspirational Author Carole Lynne
Acceptance of Our Loved Ones May 4, 2010
Posted by Carole Lynne in Feeling Better, Love, Spiritual Priority, Uncategorized.Tags: acceptance, unconditional love
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Sometimes it is hard to accept the behavior and personalities of our loved ones. Why can’t these people act like I want them to act? Why can’t they think like I want them to think?
Being close to others requires us to practice patience and acceptance. Each of us has our own ideas about what is right and wrong. Each one of us has our own ideas about how people should communicate with one another. And just as we do not always like the way our loved ones act and communicate, we must remember that they feel the same way about us. We do not always fill their expectations anymore than they fulfill ours. Can we love each other with all our good qualities and irritating qualities?
It goes without saying, that in cases where people are destructive, we cannot accept their behavior, and we may need to get professional help for ourselves and request that destructive loved ones get help.
Let us work at unconditional love and acceptance and our relationships will bring us joy, and we will be able to bring happiness to those we love.
Psychic Medium and Inspirational Author Carole Lynne
One Star at a Time January 4, 2010
Posted by Carole Lynne in All About Spirit, Feeling Better, Spiritual Priority, Uncategorized.Tags: acceptance
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Are your eyes bigger than your stomach?
Don’t bite off more than you can chew!
Are you racing to be rich and famous?
That may not be what you want to do!
Are you stressed because someone is prettier?
You may want to love who you are!
Are you forgetting how short life is?
If so- go gaze at the stars!
The stars will always tell the truth about the life that is really worth living.
Gaze at the stars and you’ll know that it’s not the taking that counts, but the giving!
Psychic Medium and Inspirational Author Carole Lynne
Family Bonds are Stonger When They are Looser! How can that be? April 14, 2009
Posted by Carole Lynne in Love, Uncategorized.Tags: acceptance, acceptance of differences, changing our lives, family bonds, gratitude, individuality, support each other
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A real bond of love between one person and another carries love within it. It is an energetic bond that one cannot see with the physical eyes, but can clearly see with the spiritual eyes: the eyes of the soul. Imagine an energetic chord flowing from one person to another that carries the vibrations of love, caring and acceptance. A ~Bond of Love~ is not a rope that binds. It is not twine that ties down the hands, feet, mind, heart and soul. When one captures another with a rope that ties one down, then instead of love flowing through from one person to another we see the vibrations of control, manipulation, envy, jealousy. If we could translate these vibrations into thought they would be “You will live your life as I want you to live it, you will not have more than me as I want to be the most powerful.” These thoughts express bonds of control.
In a family, when we have true bonds of love between members of the family, they want to be with each other. They can’t wait to come together for a family gathering. They truly love each other, because there is an atmosphere of acceptance within the family. Real bonds of love flow between all members of the family as they appreciate each other. This does not mean that parents should not set standards for their children. This does not mean that family values and traditions are not respected. But in the opinion of this author, there can only be true bonds of love when members of the family who may be a bit different than the heads of the family, are accepted with their differences. When there is acceptance, there is true love.
Families who do not accept each other still get together and there are still family bonds that tie them together. But these are not bonds of love. These are ropes of control.
Let us pray that we can understand and appreciate each person in the family for his or her individuality and originality. Then love flows like a river of beauty, and wraps around each one of us like a spiritual cloud of bliss.
Psychic Medium Carole Lynne
Author of the new book Cosmic Connection: Messages for a Better World
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